If you really cared what people think, you wouldn't be driving that silly little car now would you? Personally, I think we are heading into the great void where there is no expression, no individuality, no art, no wit, no debate, just sameness. So, light a candle and express yourself. I know it sucks to hear this coming from a guy, but there is an infinite list of brilliant women - scientists, artists, writers, musicans, etal, that were/are branded sluts and headcases by the people they scared. So get on with it then!