That coating was probably some type of DLC/PVD type coating. Carbon raptor, diamond coatings etc are all names for similar items.
The advantage of a moldstar seat vs a steel alloy seat is heat transfer. The valve contacts the seat at a "margin". That's the 45 degree angle in the middle of a 3 angle valve job. The width of that "margin" can be .010" all the way out to .045" or more. The smaller the margin, the better the flow (in theory). The smaller the margin, the less space for heat to be transferred out of the face of the valve (fact). Heat transfer is based on two items. Contact surface area (margin width), and spring pressure. So with a moldstar seat you can run narrower contact areas because you transfer more heat out of the head of the valve. Since this sounds like a schnitzer 250hp rally motor setup, I think you'd be fine with nice steel alloy seats front and back. Nothing to trick going on there. Now if you were considering a 600HP turbo 10k rpm twin cam build, then I would reconsider.
Beryllium Copper(BeCu) and You.
BeCu dust and vapors are lung carcinogens. If you work with the material under coolant when machining, you're good if you have good common sense. Since you're not casting it either, then your safe. Unless you start grinding on your ports (valve guides or seats) and breathing in the dust, your risk for exposure is nil. Moldstar and Trojan are not BeCu and do not have these issues. BeCu is stronger than either but only marginally. True BeCu is utilized in a number of industries but is difficult to manufacture in the US due to health concerns. Items such as "no spark" tools, or bearing surfaces in mission critical parts are some of the uses for it. Ping used to make an ultra forgiving set of golf irons out of cast BeCu. I still want a set just for grins.