I just put one in a few weeks ago. I thought I had it in upside down, so I pulled it back out, only to learn that I had it right the first time. It seemed to go in easily, when I did it right. In the process it got all sticky from the grease they sent with it... having taken the pillow blocks off and on a couple of times. I did not have to bend tow hooks, but it is very close to the body metal. Just don't do it like I did and you should be fine. The end result was worth the struggle. Sorry I cannot describe a "trick," but twisted just right, it fit right in there for me. I would be disappointed though, if I did not want to scratch the bar. Glad it was my car. I hope you get a better answer than this one. Tom