This is short version for now. Long version would not add much.
1. Chris76M2 posts a console plus two spare surrounds in for sale section for $100.
http://www.bmw2002faq.com/component/option,com_forum/Itemid,57/page,viewtopic/t,369343/highlight,console/
2. I react same morning saying I'll take it.
3. Seller resonds affirmatively. We have an agreement at this point. My end calls for payment via paypal. Seller's obligation is to ship the parts to me. Pretty simple. This is legally enforceable.
4. Seller edits his post to say "sold". He also deletes the photo and description.
5. I pay promptly as agreed (within 24-30 hours). Either that day or next morning (Mon).
6. On Mon, seller refunds my payment with a note saying the console side (described as pristine or flawless or some such description now deleted by seller) actually has a tear. Seller says he is not selling now.
7. I say hold on a second. Send me a photo and let me decide. Seller says sure he will send it that night.
8. I see that the description and photo have been deleted. I feel like something sneaky is going on, but keep an open mind.
9. No photo arrives on Mon.
10. On Tues or Weds I tell seller fyi I am planning to post some feedback on this site.
11. Later that day seller says basically he has children and other demands on his time, he doesn't make a living from parts sales, he is a A-ok guy. Still no photos.
12. I say basically he might be the Prince of Monaco but he broke an agreement he had no right to do. At this point I conclude that the seller is in fact a sneak and don't want to waste any more time on him. Regardless of his other demands, he chose to post up a sale and ask me and others to respond. Once he broke the contract he had an enhanced obligation to communicate, not the right to write himself modifications and excuses. I have many other demands on my time. I dont make money buying parts. But I do keep my word.
13. Bottom line -- in my view you should avoid this seller or at least treat him with suspicion. In my opinion even 20 good transactions don't give you license to do as you please in another.
14. No photos yet.